Sunday, May 27, 2007
food for thoughts...i still want u to noe that i care for u alot... n i thought that its abit too much.. was very disappointed in the way i was treated.. no i dunwan live in self denial.. the way u make me feel is juz that u couldn't be bothered... i juz feel so frustrated when i think that everything is so one sided.. im very tired.. very tired... always thought simple gestures were enuff to make one feel appreciated.. the postcard i always wished for never came before syf.. all i got was juz a good luck n a repetition of the words i send to u before.. try ur best n no regrets.. does tt really help? we never really talked much in school.. i think the most we said to each other was juz hi.. and a smile and that is all.. always hoped that u will be more spontaneous.. do something little for me that will brighten up my day.. but i was the one that always msg u the good nite and good lucks.. i gave all i had but i onli gt replies once in a while...i juz dun realise that how many msgs were sent to people but not me.. in any case, i juz feel so cold from ur side... so cold n i already brought it up... din really change much...u never did told me much about u.. i never did shared much about u.. u nva told me wad went wrong wif me... so many things need figuring out... n i feel so alone doing all the job...wad dun really make sense is that all u said was.. i was possessive... i thought about it very much.. i guess it was juz a misunderstanding of the word possessive between us... for me.. possessive means not giving the freedom to do wadever u want.. for u, possessive might mean holding u back wif juz a presense.. wadever the case it is.. i think i should learn from it. i always find it within myself.. but sometimes the problem juz cant be found... is it me or is it you? i dunno... i never stopped u from going out wif ur frens.. i nva stopped u from doing wadever u want.. i juz dunno how u thought i was possessive n i really needa noe that.. always struggled wif myself n i always had my idea of wad is right and wad is wrong.. feeling jealous when u are talking to other guys is wrong.. tts y im trying veyr hard not to feel tt way... but feeling disappointed when u din come talk to me is wrong? i doubt so... even when it is going out.. its almost always me asking u.. n u always said u go out wif frens.. start of april u said muz wait till may.. now may is ending n we still arent going out together... told u i was not alrite n wanted to ask u out.. all u said was not free.. n i din even asked y.. i juz said nevermind... n tts possessive... spent dunno how many sleepless nights thinking how to help u wif ur studies n how to make ur life more colourful n tts possessive.. doing mindmaps for u, making cards, notes, folding birds, simple lil gestures is possessive.. n i kept quiet for so long about how hard it is to send a msg about how frustrated i was wif sch n band wadever n did not receive a reply.. haha! does it even help? i juz gotta trust u that u got my msg n feel my pain.. but its not shared.. n its difficult to even trust that u will feel anithing... no fone calls no wadever...and all i wanted was for u to show me more care... more concern.. be there for me.. n become 2 very good frens.. help each other through everything... tell me everything will be fine... and is thats so difficult..its no more about commitments or wad.. gone were the days when u wud ask me out to study wif u.. gone were the days where we will go out n buy bubbletea together... right now, wad i feel is that u have moved on..think trying to make u more committed has resulted n this possessive behavior... thought we drifted so far apart.. u nva did realise how i felt.. neither do i noe how u feel.. communications breakdown.. abit sadded.. we wun blame anibody.. i wun blame u... maybe its juz that we werent ready for each other yet.. guess i gotta cool down first... i think i went in too deep too early...
always learn lessons in life n keep them well...hope we are ready to start anew soon...
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